ITALIAN SPEAKING I hold it steady and shove my hands inside without any hesitation. I push hard, spread my fingers wide, and dig in up to my elbow, one after the other. First me: I push all the way in, feeling my whole arm disappear. Then I make room for my friend, who enters the same way and also reaches up to her elbow. We take turns without pause, one hand after the other, going deeper and deeper, spreading it open and filling it until our whole arms disappear inside her.